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First date

All men planning their first date with a girl who managed to ignite a spark in their heart should remember one simple truth. Representatives of the fair half have very different tastes and inclinations. That is why it is impossible to create in advance such a universal «recipe for the first date», which would give a guarantee of one hundred percent success — although some rules do exist. More info at https://optimist.pw/.

How to make the first date such that the lady of your heart wants to repeat it at least a million more times? Let’s figure it out.

«Why should we gather there? ..»
So, you ironed your trousers, suffered for half an hour, tying a tie, and then remembered the classic Internet «the less we love a woman …» — and decided to test the girl for strength, putting on shabby jeans and a sweater, which is high time to move to the country. In fact, she fell in love with you, and not with your clothes ?!

Well, quite a sensible reasoning. True, it may well turn out that the girl will be, as they say, «dumb» to walk arm in arm with a companion who looks like she spent the night on the heating main. Therefore, dressing in a gardening style is only worth it when you agreed to go fishing on the first date or walk through the forest in search of mushrooms.

By the way: this option of a meeting may well justify itself — especially if you take a guitar with you and, when it gets dark, you sing something lyrical to your chosen one. Only in this case, do not forget to take a repellent with you — honestly, the first kiss under the irrepressible mosquito ringing and bites is unlikely to justify your (and her) expectations.

Another killer clothing option — in the sense that one that can hack to the root of your hopes for the next meeting — the «informal» style. Then you will explain to the girl that you cannot imagine life without spiked leather wristbands and rapper pants, from which panties stick out extremely, but for now you should not scare her so. Better to dress in a more classic style.

We look at the clock
Here we can only say one thing: do not impose your version on the girl! In the end, it is not she who is you, but you are inviting her, therefore, one should proceed from the fact that it is first of all convenient for your lady. There may be reasons why she cannot, for example, go on a date by nine o’clock in the evening. More precisely, she will come (if you are interested in her), but she will not think about you, but about what it would be to lie at home so that there are no troubles, or about how not to be late for the last bus and not spend the night at the station …

Yes, and one more sincere advice: do not take to execution the Internet wisdom that «a man should be a villain» and interrupt the date, casually scheduling the next meeting and suddenly leave into the night, leaving the girl in the middle of the street. In part, you will achieve your goal — she really considers you a scoundrel. And also an ill-mannered boor who left her without protection at a late hour and with whom she now and under the threat of execution will not go anywhere.

Where to go with her?
Naturally, you are not a newbie on the Internet, for a long time you conducted reconnaissance of her pages on social networks and, turning on the logic, found out where she likes to go, and what options it is better not to offer her. If a girl is more or less friends with physical education, then you can surprise her (only by warning in advance that you need to dress in a sporty way) and invite … to a climbing wall or an equestrian club!

True, after that you will be hungry — and neither will your girlfriend, although on the first date she will not admit this even under cross-examination.

About daily
Wherever you go, ask if there is a quiet café nearby, and set aside money for these expenses in advance. Moreover, it is better with a margin and in an inner pocket, so as not to lose, since a gentleman, frantically looking for a wallet in his pockets to pay for dinner, will look, let’s say, pretty unromantic.

With or without flowers?
You can, of course, go against traditions, come without a bouquet and say to your lady of the heart: «You know, I was thinking here why we need these conventions of the Stone Age.» No doubt, a modern woman will agree with your arguments — at least for show! However, a bouquet on a first date is, if you like, a trademark, a notification to those around you that you are having a DATE, and not friendly gatherings, so without it, the girl will have the feeling that something is missing.

What if she is not interested in me?
Sometimes the guy tries his best to entertain the girl, but after a while she starts looking around and yawning covertly … This happens when the gentleman is too talkative or when he does not even try to understand what the lady is talking about.

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